I have an issue with something.... what's the best way to go about this?

Make an announcement at the reception that both your husband and yourself would like to publicize the wedding photos on your own time together vs. those taken by a non-professional. Make sure to include you will publicize the professional photos from the photographer later down the line when you've ordered them, but as of now you wish everyone would just enjoy what they are experiencing now and worry about uploading the photos after you have done the honors of doing it first.